Tout vrai problème est de soi à soi

[Every real problem is between me and myself.]

Advice?

It’s more about

aiding the process

of self-realization,

or discovery:

guiding the work

of getting out

what needs to be

expressed,

what obstructs

and blocks

and suffocates,

to free up space

for finding

in ourselves

alone

the ‘answers’,

(the wordless sense,

or knowledge,

that’s already

silently in us,

but hidden,

covered,

hard or impossible

to find

or see clearly).

Advice frustrates,

embarrasses,

offends.

(Because

not our own (advice, or thoughts, or feeling, or ‘answer’)

but the other’s.

Our mind

could maybe agree,

but not our full self.)

You have to find

what you want

alone,

in yourself,

in your own words,

your own body and mind.

Another person

can’t tell you,

though at best

perhaps

they could help.